When I wrote, “Decepción,” I was thinking about a friend of mine who unexpectedly stopped talking to me. I was very disheartened and was feeling as though this friendship had been a waste of my time. The plane in the essay refers to the sensation of excitement that happens when you first meet a person, you cannot wait to get to know them better. If, as you invest time and yourself in a relationship, you realize that it is a fruitless paradise, you wish you had never met the person. “Decepción,” or disappointment, is a state where expectations are lowered and trust is lost. However, as I point out toward the end of this essay, disappointments will come to you no matter how well you protect yourself, so you must learn to give people another chance.
Collage: Vol. 4
, Article 68.
Available at: https://digitalcommons.denison.edu/collage/vol4/iss1/68